Curious Affairs Of Atherton Bartelby

Curious briefings on culture, design, and the digital world, as observed through the looking glass by Atherton Bartelby.

Requisite Photoblogging Of Memorial Day Weekend

Of course, some images may or may not have been captured by me, and some images may or may not have been captured while said photographer was inebriated or otherwise incapacitated. But it’s a pretty good photo journal of a long holiday weekend on Oahu with Atherton Bartelby and Bartholomew Cubbins. (Um. Even the “Lucky We Live Hawai`i” photo of the scum on the water at the Waikiki Yacht Club is oddly engaging…especially the empty nip bottle.)

Also, the first image was not from this weekend, but deserves to be in the photo set due to the “wow what an odd and random photo in this particular digital camera dump” sort of quality of the image.

The Horse Place | Table 39

“How many Manhattans does it take to prompt a random image of a frayed piece of drapery?”

The Horse Place a.k.a. Palomino | Honolulu Hawai`i

More “Yay We Can Finally Bust Out The White Manolo Stilettos!” Weekend Photos Here

[Blogger's Note: That single inebriated image above is all that remains of referenced Memorial Day Weekend 2006 Photoblog, folks. Sorry about that. They were way wicked awesome while they were around, though, trust us.]

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If It’s In My Notes It’s In Fashion

Words cannot adequately express the sheer and utter joy and elation I feel at being mere hours away from a three-and-a-half-day holiday weekend. Like manna from the sky, it is! I’m feeling rather exhilarated, anticipating the possibilities of the weekend, and, also, oddly positive and hopeful, even in the dead morning air of Downtown Honolulu, that, after a considerably stressful week, the long weekend will provide many lovely opportunities for stress relief, fun, and happiness.

This feeling was confirmed for me as I left my condo building this morning, after having “packed my sack” with enough reading material for the weekend (because you never know when you’ll get home again once you leave on Friday morning): the latest issue of Hawaii In Magazine; Jessica Cutler’s The Washingtonienne (almost finished reading for like the 85th time, to be followed by paying full attention to Augusten Burroughs’ Running With Scissors); and…a little something I picked up from my mailbox on my way out of my building.

Straight from Peru via the CNMI, the book I unwrapped was Net-A-Porter.com’s “Notes” for the Spring / Summer 2006 Collections. The script on the back of the enclosed postcard from Peru promised that the book would be a reminder that, although 2006 has been a shitty year so far, it will be the year in which things are put in order, making me fit not only for the red carpet situations, but also fit for the fearless and searching inventories.

I plan to start taking “Notes” in the book this very weekend. Thank you, Anaiis, fellow phoenix and sister; I couldn’t have imagined a better, nor more appropriate, gift to receive. Much love to you, my darling.

Now if you will excuse me, I must away to begin my weekend with a pre-island-dawn dash to the Open Market up the street with my dear friend Blythe, to collect fresh herbs for our fabulous wine tasting event tomorrow evening.

Wonderful weekend, all!

Notes From Anaiis

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May I Live In The Fifth Avenue Apple Store?

Because it is fucking gorgeous! I’m not sure I would have been geeky enough to stand in that psycho long line to see the interior, though; I think I would have taken a hint from Animal New York and gained entrance the stealth way. (By the way, wow but Kevin Bacon is not looking so good. Also by the way, these images make me a tad nostalgic for my New York Days, since I believe that’s the plaza that used to house my old Vidal Sassoon salon. *sigh*)

In other news, no, I will not be attending ARTafterDARK’s event this month (“Holy Grail! Behind the Da Vinci Code”), since aside from finally caving in to popular culture and reading the fucking book to find out what all of the fucking hype is about, I really have no interest in the Da Vinci Code beyond that.

And, finally, to the apparently rather dense staff at RainbowWeddingNetworkMagazine.com: kindly remove my address from your bulk email list on which I never once requested inclusion! Although your emails go directly to my spam folder in GMail, I still see them, and they do not currently make me feel all warm and fuzzy and cuddly. Instead I feel like I’ve just received a snail mailer addressed to “SINGLE.” To paraphrase Samantha Jones, “It’s like the electronic mail equivalent of a drive-by shooting.” Mmmkaythxbuhbye.

P.S. Yet another random pop song has caught my interest and is now on repeat. Thanks, Shakira; I really needed that.

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The Gemini Effect

Once again, he awoke well before his mobile phone’s alarm began trilling at 5:00 a.m., grimacing as he rolled over and felt the last remnants of beach sand on his pillow from Friday evening. He cursed himself for working too many long hours in the office over the weekend instead of fully attending to the sand eradication issue in his studio. He rolled out of bed onto Queen Street almost effortlessly, the old strut nearly returned to his walk. Until his mobile vibrated against his thigh. It was his morning text message. He rolled his eyes as he fished the piece out of his pocket to read it.

“Good morning! Where R U?!”

“Oh, Jesus Christ!” he muttered, as he texted, “On way into office. Where R U?!”

“This is fucking ridiculous,” he muttered to himself, again, dumping his piece back into his pocket. “Fucking text messages at fucking 6:00 a.m. are not friendly!”

He was easily pissed off at the three women who slowly emerged from the elevator in his building’s lobby, so slowly that by the time he was able to press his floor’s button, he had lost the elevator’s light. “Fucking bitches,” he muttered, finger pressing the button firmly as the car stopped at two, faltered, then continued on its way up. “Move your fucking asses next time!”

It wasn’t even 6:00 a.m. and he was already enraged.

He threw his D&Gs onto his desk, fired up his comp, removed his phone from “Send All Calls,” and grabbed his “Naughty” mug. “If I don’t get coffee, like, now, I will kill the next person I see,” he thought.

Fittingly, the first people he sees are Sachi and Older Homosexual Colleague, in the lunch room, neither of whom speak to him anymore. He says nothing as he pours his coffee and sugar and immediately leaves the room for a cigarette break.

At around 8:15 a.m., like clockwork, the first of the 85,000 telephone calls throughout the day; he knows what name will be displayed before he even glances over to look at the caller ID display. “Good morning, Sir,” he says. “‘Morning, Sweetie. Made it into the office, I see. How are you this morning?” And on and on and on, ad nauseum.

A voicemail left at 10:30 a.m. while on another cigarette break: “Lunch. Palomino. 11:30. Call me.” Returned call: “Can’t. On budget this week. Thanks anyway.” “Darling, I’m taking you.” He literally holds the receiver away from his ear and wrinkles his brow at the phone before saying into it, “Um. Are you sure?!” “Well, of course, Sweetie!”

*headdesk*

Lunch was lovely, spent with two female colleagues (“Separate checks, please. He and I are together.” WTF?!), who gave us knowing glances and giggled to each other repeatedly throughout the Chop Chop Salads and Raspberry Mojitos. Eventually, as per usual, the other man makes reference to a vaguely handsome yet too-muscular bartender, and comments, “Oh, I love how his hair is longer in the back and kind of curls up; perfect for just grabbing onto. Hmph!” He stops, forkful of Chop Chop midway between plate and mouth, remembering a flash from Friday evening on the beach. One of the female colleagues looks pointedly at his own hair, currently too-long in the back, and curling up, and giggles to her female colleague.

Afternoon events included catching up with the only two colleagues who know the entire story. “Honey, you’re dating,” one of them said. “No, we’re not,” he said, adamantly, “not according to him.” “Honey. Trust me. You are dating.” He rolls his eyes in response.

*headdesk*

“So I was just chatting with my friend Remington in New York about The Bartholomew Situation,” he said to another colleague, exhaling smoke on the last cigarette break of the day. “What did he say?” she asked, eyebrow raised. “He said, and I quote, ‘He loves you. And he’s scared.’ End quote,” he said, exhaling again. “And what did you say?” she asked. “I replied, ‘UGH THAT IS SO PUSSY OMGWTFBBQ!!!’” She laughed sympathetically.

And then, at the end of the day, as dark rain clouds gathered over Downtown Honolulu, making the twilight even darker than usual, he sits smoking and writing in his notebook, and sees the other man walk out of the building to leave for the evening. He walks over slowly, sheepish look on his face. He sits on the other bench and makes small talk, promises to do more ticket research for their vacation later in the evening, and rises to leave and walk away. He slowly turns around, looks over his shoulder, and says, “Call me later…ok?”

“Of course,” he agrees. And smiles.

And thus concludes another day in the life of The Relationship That Wasn’t; or, “My *air quotes* ‘Relationship’ With Mixed Message Boy.”

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An Ode On Behalf Of People Like Us

Hello. Allow me to introduce You to People Like Us.

We’re a very special group of people, We are. We love deeply, We give freely (sometimes perhaps too freely, too quickly), and when We are approached with a potentially romantic situation, like it or not, We run with it, with abandon, and We relish it and the way it (and You) make Us feel. Yes, perhaps, sometimes We are irrational. But only as irrational as You lead us to think (and feel) We can be; We’re smart like that…and intuitive. Not to say that if You give Us an inch of rope We’ll hang ourselves, but that if You hint at or nudge Us in the direction of romance through some action, word, or inflection of Your own, then We are there, Baby. Right with You. By Your side.

But there’s something else You should know about People Like Us. We’re damaged. We’ve been hurt. Other people (the Less Worthy), in the past, did not cherish Our hearts as much as We cherished theirs. And it nearly killed Us. And We’re scared. And You may be scared, as well; just as damaged, just as hurt, just as nearly killed. But You know what? People Like Us? We bounce back. And We heal. And We vow that We will not be hurt as badly, nor as deeply, as The Last Time.

And People Like Us are risk-takers.

We take that risk, again and again, of potentially being hurt, because We need love. Just like You do. And People Like Us know that if We don’t take that risk, again and again, We will be alone, and lonely, for the rest of Our lives. So We take the risk of a further damaged heart in order to find love again.

Because People Like Us are Fearless In Love like that.

And You? You need to be fearless, as well.

Throw away your fears. Refrain from playing with Us. Restrain Yourself from sending one message in one direction and then another in the polar opposite.

Cherish Our hearts like We will (and do) cherish Yours.

Open Your ears. Hear Us.

Open Your eyes. See Us.

Open Your soul. And welcome Us in.

For We will be there forever.

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Atherton Bartelby is a graphic designer, art director, writer, blogger, and photographer based in New York. Curious Affairs is where his passions converge: art, culture, design, media, New York City, technology, and random quotations from David Markson and Ludwig Wittgenstein without warning. Readers should note that the views and opinions expressed by Atherton in Curious Affairs are his own, and do not necessarily reflect those of others. He may be reached at bartelby AT abartelby DOT net.


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